Why Does My Boyfriend Keep Me Around?

How many of you girls out there have broke up with a boyfriend who let you stay around and even sleep with him? If you are doing this now and think you want to get him back as a regular boyfriend again you need to stop now. You are being taken advantage of because he is not thinking of you in girlfriend terms at this time, you have become a convenient person to him.

If you truly want to get him back you need to make it an emotional relationship not a casual one, you need to have him respect you and care for you. If you can get him to the point that he chases after you, then you have him where YOU need him. You need to create a value in yourself that would spark an emotional caring feeling in you that he must have.

First thing you need to be doing is have strong self esteem, don’t be pushed around. Control your own life, do not let someone else such as a boyfriend, control it for you. If you come across to your boyfriend that you are your own person and maybe even a little hard to get, he will have a different attitude for you - its called respect.

Do not put up with any crap from a guy, if you don’t like the way things are going between the two of you and you can’t see things getting better, move on. If you had set yourself up with the right attitude and did this, your boyfriend will be begging you to come back and swearing he will change. It’s the girl that is weaker willed that will be begging their boyfriend to come back.

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